Response-ability: How we make ourselves victims without realizing it

One of the trends I dislike in our culture is the reluctance of people to take responsibility, or to respond with care to each other. I hear a lot of self-justification, mind-reading, defensiveness, blaming and complaining; which is why relationships, friendships, business connections and day-to-day living are not going well for that client. Their lives are not about trying to...